How to Breastfeed? What are the 4 stages of breastfeeding?

Breastfeeding is the act of feeding an infant or young child milk directly from the breast. It is a natural and healthy way to provide nutrition for your baby, and it comes with many benefits for both mother and child. However, breastfeeding can also be challenging, and it is not always easy to get started or to maintain a successful breastfeeding relationship.


What are the 4 stages of breastfeeding?

How to Breastfeed? What are the 4 stages of breastfeeding?

This blog post will provide an overview of the four stages of breastfeeding, as well as some tips for success. We will also discuss some common challenges that mothers may face during breastfeeding, and when to seek help from a lactation consultant or doctor.


The Four Stages of Breastfeeding.

The first stage: of breastfeeding starts before baby is born.

During pregnancy, the breasts begin to prepare for milk production. The nipples and areola (the dark area around the nipple) enlarge and darken. The Montgomery glands, which are small bumps on the areola, increase in size and secrete an oily substance that keeps the skin around the nipple soft and protected. Colostrum, the first milk produced after childbirth, begins to fill the breast ducts late in pregnancy.


There are several things you can do during pregnancy to prepare for breastfeeding:


Learn as much as you can about breastfeeding. Reading books, attending classes or watching videos about breastfeeding will help you understand how it works and what to expect. You can also talk to other moms who have breastfed, a lactation consultant or your healthcare provider.


Make sure your diet is nutritious and includes plenty of fluids. Eating a healthy diet helps your body produce enough milk for your baby. Drink plenty of fluids, especially water, to keep your body hydrated and producing milk.


Avoid alcohol, cigarettes and drugs. These substances can pass from your bloodstream into your breastmilk and affect your baby’s health. If you’re taking medication, check with your healthcare provider to make sure it’s compatible with breastfeeding.


Stage Two: Establishing Breastfeeding

The second stage of breastfeeding starts after baby is born and lasts until baby is about two weeks old. This is when baby learns how to latch onto the nipple and breastfeed effectively. It’s important during this stage to:


Position baby correctly - Baby should be tummy-to-tummy with you, with their nose level with the nipple so they can open their mouth wide while latching on (think letter “C”). Support baby’s head and back with your hand while bringing them close to your breast (you may need pillows for support). Bring the nipple towards baby rather than trying to position baby onto the nipple since this can cause frustration for both of you!


Ensure a good latch - Baby should take more of the areola into their mouth than just the nipple (you want them latched onto mostly Areola so they get more hindmilk which has all those awesome fats!). To break suction gently insert your pinky finger between their gums while supporting their head with your other hand; do NOT pullbaby away fromyour breast by their head as this can damage delicate neck muscles!


Tips for Successful Breastfeeding.

Correct positioning and latch are essential for successful breastfeeding. The baby should be positioned so that their mouth is level with the nipple, and the nipple should be inserted into the baby's mouth as far back as possible. To achieve a good latch, the baby's tongue should be down, and the lower jaw should be extended. The baby's lips should be flanged out, and they should have a wide gape.


To position the baby correctly, hold them close to your body with their head in line with your nipple. You can support their head with your hand or arm. Bring them close enough so that they can take a deep breath in and root around to find your nipple. Once they have found your nipple, allow them to latch on and start sucking.


If you are having trouble getting the baby to latch on correctly, try using a breast shield. A breast shield is a thin piece of silicone that you place over your nipple before attempting to latch the baby on. This can help if you have flat or inverted nipples.


Breastfeeding frequency and duration.

It is recommended that babies be fed every two to three hours in the early days after birth. As baby gets older, they will likely start sleeping for longer stretches at night and will space out their feedings during the day accordingly. The length of time each feeding takes will vary depending on the baby's age and appetite, but typically it takes around 20 minutes for a newborn to eat an adequate amount of milk (Eagle 2012).


As baby gets older, they will nurse less frequently but for longer periods of time per feeding. By six months old, most babies are only nursing four to five times per day (Eagle 2012). However, it is important to remember that every baby is different and some may continue to nurse more frequently even after six months old.

Diet and hydration

It is important to drink plenty of fluids while breastfeeding, as dehydration can lead to decreased milk production (Huggins 2007). aim for eight to ten glasses of water per day in addition to other beverages like milk, juice, herbal tea or coffee (Huggins 2007). Eating a well-balanced diet will also help ensure an adequate milk supply (Huggins 2007). Foods that are particularly beneficial for lactating mothers include leafy green vegetables, whole grains, nuts and seeds, legumes, lean protein sources and plenty of healthy fats like avocados and olive oil (Huggins 2007).


Omega-3 fatty acids are also important for both mother and child during breastfeeding (Cooke 2014). Good sources of omega-3 fatty acids include fish like salmon or tuna , flaxseed oil , chia seeds , walnuts , soybeans , tofu , Brussels sprouts , kale , spinach , broccoli , pumpkin seeds  and eggs . aim to eat two servings of fish per week while breastfeeding (Cooke 2014). If you do not eat fish or are vegan/vegetarian , taking a daily omega-3 supplement  is recommended (Cooke 2014) .


Pumping and storage

If you need to pump your breast milk, it is important to use a clean, sterilized pump and storage container. Breast milk can be stored in a covered glass or hard plastic container in the refrigerator for up to four days (USDA 2018). It can also be stored in a covered, freezer-safe container in the freezer for up to six months (USDA 2018). When thawing frozen breast milk, place it in the refrigerator overnight or under cold running water (USDA 2018). Never re-freeze thawed breast milk.


If you are away from home and cannot refrigerate or freeze your breast milk, it can be kept at room temperature for up to four hours (USDA 2018). If possible, keep the breast milk in an insulated bag with ice packs.


Breastfeeding Challenges and How to Overcome Them.

Engorgement is when your breasts become too full of milk. This can happen in the early days after childbirth, or if you haven't breastfed your baby for a while. Engorgement can make it difficult to latch your baby on, and can cause pain.


To ease engorgement, try expressing some milk before you breastfeed, using a cold compress on your breasts, or taking a warm shower. If you're still having trouble, contact a lactation consultant or your doctor for help.


Low milk supply.

It's normal for your milk supply to fluctuate in the early days and weeks after childbirth. However, if you're concerned that your milk supply is low, there are things you can do to increase it. These include breastfeeding frequently, using a breast pump to stimulate production, and eating foods that promote lactation (such as oatmeal and fenugreek). If you're still having trouble increasing your milk supply, contact a lactation consultant or your doctor for help.



Mastitis is an infection of the breast tissue that can cause fever, chills, and pain. It usually happens when a blocked milk duct isn't drained properly. To treat mastitis at home, rest as much as possible, take pain relievers if needed, nurse frequently from both breasts (even if only one is affected), use a warm compress on the affected area, and express milk often to relieve pressure. If you're still having symptoms after a few days, or if your fever is over 101 degrees Fahrenheit, contact your doctor.


Nipple pain.

Nipple pain is common in the early days of breastfeeding, but it shouldn't last long. To ease nipple pain, use a lanolin cream or gel (such as Lansinoh), express milk frequently, and try different nursing positions. If you're still in pain after a few days, contact a lactation consultant or your doctor for help.


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When to Seek Help from a Lactation Consultant or Doctor.

If you are concerned about your baby's weight gain, it is important to seek help from a lactation consultant or doctor. A lactation consultant can help you determine if your baby is getting enough milk and offer suggestions on how to increase your milk production. A doctor can rule out any medical conditions that may be causing your baby to lose weight.


Breastfeeding is not going well.

If you are having difficulty breastfeeding, it is important to seek help from a lactation consultant or doctor. A lactation consultant can help you with positioning and latch, and offer suggestions on how to increase your milk production. A doctor can rule out any medical conditions that may be causing you difficulties breastfeeding.


You have questions or concerns.

If you have any questions or concerns about breastfeeding, it is important to seek help from a lactation consultant or doctor. They can answer any questions you have and provide support and guidance through the breastfeeding process.



Breastfeeding is an amazing way to bond with your baby and provide them with the best nutrition possible. Although it can be challenging at times, there are many resources available to help you succeed. With a little patience and practice, you will be a breastfeeding pro in no time!


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